From what I hear, wedding planning can be stressful. And from what I've experienced only 3 months in is that that is correct. The problem is that I want it to be fun so here is what i've come up with. 12 jars, one per month until the wedding), at the end of each stick is something we need to do for the wedding, we pull one stick a week on Sunday night and that is our goal for the week. My hope is that this will keep me from feeling overloaded with things that need to get done. I am very much a person that feels things need to be completed immediately, I don't want them done now, I wanted them done yesterday. Hopefully this will keep me at an even speed.